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A sister who is not convinced that having boyfriend is Haram in Islam said:
“Haram love ?!! but our love is "pure" and "innocent" ! Forbidden relationships mean fornication before marriage! But my relationship with him is only through facebook and it never crossed the limits..“
the answer for that is:
Dear sister, Allah says in Qur’an talking about how Muslim women should be “[They should be] chaste, neither [of] those who commit unlawful intercourse randomly nor those who take [secret] lovers. “(An-Nisaa 25)
Secret lover includes your boyfriend too even if your relationship is over Facebook (the net) or the phone
when you are talking to him, sharing your feelings with him and enjoying this relationship your heart is committing Zina (fornication)
because fornication is not only related to the sexual relationship but also related to the fornication of eyes, ears, feets, hands, heart…
Prophet Mohammad (salaAllahu alaihi wa sallam) said:"The fornication of the two eyes is an evil glance. The fornication of the two ears is the obscene talk. The fornication of the tongue and hand is the touch and grasp. And the fornication of the two feet is the steps taken towards evil. The heart desires and longs and the private parts abide with or does contrary to it”. (Mishkat ul Masabih, Abu Dawood)

Taken from : http://www.facebook.com/proud.muslim.woman

And we add : having a boyfriend will make your life more complicated , about 85 % of women who had boyfriends did not marry them , which will cause many problems with their husbands.
If you make relationships with many boys , you will compare your husband to those boys and you will dislike many of his caracters , you will always think that your boyfriend was more affectionate or more generous than your husband , this comparison will build walls between you and your husband and will end by divorce , the same thing goes with men who have many girlfriends before marriage

Please wake up to protect the society from this huge number of divorces ...

Live as a good practising muslim and you will never regret it

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