الأحد، 2 أبريل، 2017

women


Umm Salamah reported from the Messenger of Allah PBUH He said.
Any woman dies while her husband is pleased with her she will enter Jannah.
At-Tirmidhi, 11611.
Brief Commentary.
The distinction mentioned in this Hadith is for those women who abide by the duties and obligations entrusted to them by Islam and also endeavour to keep their husbands happy. Allah will pardon their ordinary acts of omission and commission and admit them to Jannah.
Tafsir Ibn e Kathir commented regarding this Hadith.
Live With Women Honorably.
Allah said.
ﻭَﻋَﺎﺷِﺮُﻭﻫُﻦَّ ﺑِﺎﻟْﻤَﻌْﺮُﻭﻑِ.
And live with them honorably.
The Quran 4 - 199.
By saying kind words to them treating them kindly and making your appearance appealing for them as much as you can just as you like the same from them.
Allah said in another Ayah.
ﻭَﻟَﻬُﻦَّ ﻣِﺜْﻞُ ﺍﻟَّﺬِﻯ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻬِﻦَّ ﺑِﺎﻟْﻤَﻌْﺮُﻭﻑِ.
And they have rights similar over them to what is reasonable.
The Quran 2 - 2288.
The Messenger of Allah said.
‏ﺧَﻴْﺮُﻛُﻢْ ﺧَﻴْﺮُﻛُﻢْ ﻟِﺄَﻫْﻠِﻪِ، ﻭَﺃَﻧَﺎ ﺧَﻴْﺮُﻛُﻢْ ﻟِﺄَﻫْﻠِﻲ.
The best among you is he who is the best with his family. Verily I am the best one among you with my family.
It was the practice of the Messenger of Allah to be kind cheerful playful with his wives compassionate spending on them and laughing with them. The Messenger used to race with A'ishah the Mother of the Faithful as a means of kindness to her.
A'ishah said.
 The Messenger of Allah raced with me and I won the race. This occurred before I gained weight and afterwards I raced with him again and he won that race.
He said.
‏ﻫﺬِﻩِ ﺑِﺘِﻠْﻚ.
This victory is for that victory.
When the Prophet was at the home of one of his wives sometimes all of his wives would meet there and eat together and they would then go back to their homes. He and his wife would sleep in the same bed he would remove his upper garment sleeping in only his lower garment. The Prophet used to talk to the wife whose night it was after praying "Isha" and before he went to sleep.
Allah explaining the verse.
ﻟَّﻘَﺪْ ﻛَﺎﻥَ ﻟَﻜُﻢْ ﻓِﻰ ﺭَﺳُﻮﻝِ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪِ ﺃُﺳْﻮَﺓٌ ﺣَﺴَﻨَﺔٌ.
Indeed in the Messenger of Allah you have a good example to follow.
The Quran 33 - 211.
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