No Boyfriends!
As a Muslim, you know that having a boyfriend is haraam
because it counts as Zina - fornication. Fornication, in easy
English, means `sexual sin'. Allah expressly forbids romantic or
sexual relationships outside of marriage.
When people go against that rule, then you get the typical
western society where people play sexual merry-go-round with
each other, giving each other STDs, usin
g and abusing each other, and destroying the sacredness of
marriage as an institution. You can't even be sort of engaged to a
guy, and then "date" to get to know each other. In Islam, non-
Mahram men and women aren't allowed to be alone together
(that includes talking o*!n the phone!), to touch (not even shake
hands), or even gaze at each other. It doesn't matter if the guy
you like is Muslim, a great guy and the Prince of England, you
can't date him.
No Boy—friends!
The easiest way to ensure that you don't end up falling in love
with some guy before you 're ready to get married is to avoid making friends with boys. Of course in school you have to interact with boys all over the place, but that doesn't mean you should be best buds with them.
Probably 90% of relationships begin from friendships. Chances are
you're not ready for marriage, your parents aren't ready to let
you get married, you're still in school/college and your crush is
not the sort of fellow you want to spend the rest of your life
with, so just avoid being friends with him in the first place. It
really is the best formula for saving yourself from needless
temptation. When you have to talk to boys in school as
teammates, lab partners, group members, and peers, it's best to
maintain a distance. That means that you don't confide in them,
you don't let down your guard, you don't unnecessarily engage
them in needless conversation, don't joke around, and never flirt.
Yeah it may be a little hard, but this is your afterlife we're talking
about.
So many great sisters have put themselves in really sticky
situations because they allowed a boy to get to know them, and
either ended up liking the boy, or having the boy like them. o*!
nce that happens you either end up becoming a pair (which is
HARAAM!), or having to end your friendship. Instead of letting it
get to that point, and then having to kill a friendship that you
probably worked hard o*!n cultivating, you should just stop it
before it begins. There are plenty of great girls all around who
can be your friends and if you really think o*!nly a guy will
understand your problem, then talk to your REAL brother, or
your father, or an uncle
As a Muslim, you know that having a boyfriend is haraam
because it counts as Zina - fornication. Fornication, in easy
English, means `sexual sin'. Allah expressly forbids romantic or
sexual relationships outside of marriage.
When people go against that rule, then you get the typical
western society where people play sexual merry-go-round with
each other, giving each other STDs, usin
g and abusing each other, and destroying the sacredness of
marriage as an institution. You can't even be sort of engaged to a
guy, and then "date" to get to know each other. In Islam, non-
Mahram men and women aren't allowed to be alone together
(that includes talking o*!n the phone!), to touch (not even shake
hands), or even gaze at each other. It doesn't matter if the guy
you like is Muslim, a great guy and the Prince of England, you
can't date him.
No Boy—friends!
The easiest way to ensure that you don't end up falling in love
with some guy before you 're ready to get married is to avoid making friends with boys. Of course in school you have to interact with boys all over the place, but that doesn't mean you should be best buds with them.
Probably 90% of relationships begin from friendships. Chances are
you're not ready for marriage, your parents aren't ready to let
you get married, you're still in school/college and your crush is
not the sort of fellow you want to spend the rest of your life
with, so just avoid being friends with him in the first place. It
really is the best formula for saving yourself from needless
temptation. When you have to talk to boys in school as
teammates, lab partners, group members, and peers, it's best to
maintain a distance. That means that you don't confide in them,
you don't let down your guard, you don't unnecessarily engage
them in needless conversation, don't joke around, and never flirt.
Yeah it may be a little hard, but this is your afterlife we're talking
about.
So many great sisters have put themselves in really sticky
situations because they allowed a boy to get to know them, and
either ended up liking the boy, or having the boy like them. o*!
nce that happens you either end up becoming a pair (which is
HARAAM!), or having to end your friendship. Instead of letting it
get to that point, and then having to kill a friendship that you
probably worked hard o*!n cultivating, you should just stop it
before it begins. There are plenty of great girls all around who
can be your friends and if you really think o*!nly a guy will
understand your problem, then talk to your REAL brother, or
your father, or an uncle
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