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Major objections of non-Muslims regarding Muslim marriage
Many non-Muslims object that when Aisha Siddiqah (RA) got big married, she was not an adult. And she was raped. The answer to all these objections will be collected with scientific evidence from Islam. And it will be proven that Hazrat Aisha Siddiqah (RA) was also an adult woman. And she was happy with her marriage. And Islam never ordered anyone to get married at the age of 9. Every girl reaches puberty at a different age. Whereas Islam allows big marriage to an adult woman.
Ayesha Siddiqa was one of those intelligent women who is chosen as one of the intelligent among millions. Who knew the Quran. Through Hazrat Aisha Siddiqah (RA), the understanding of the Quran also reached the people. Who spent most of their time learning. That is why Allah Almighty chose her. At the time of her departure, she was as intelligent as an adult. She was also fat and healthy in size and had puberty like menstruation. Due to hot food and a warm place, puberty comes early in a woman.
This has been proven by science. Puberty begins at the age of 7 or 8 and can occur at any time up to the age of 15, in which the role of food and place is most important. The sign of puberty is menstruation.
Science says that puberty in girls can begin even at the age of 8. This happens in fewer girls. A warm place is the cause of hot food. Reference
Scientific knowledge also confirms puberty from the age of 8. If the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) wanted to get married, 10 marriages were permissible in Arabia. In all parts of Arabia, people got married as soon as they reached puberty.
When he married Hazrat Khadija (may Allah be pleased with her), he did not marry anyone else. The marriages that took place after Hazrat Khadija (may Allah be pleased with her) were for the implementation of Sharia.
Aisha Siddiqah was fully mature at the time of marriage.
Intelligent + Fat + Menstruating
This is according to scientists to be fully mature.
The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was the Messenger of Allah. And Allah Almighty ordered him to marry a woman who would help him in the work of religion. Aisha Siddiqah (may Allah be pleased with her) was more intelligent than his other wives and knew the understanding of the Quran.
The rest of the evidence
Aisha (RA) was very thin, her mother tried hard to make her fat. And when no other method worked, she started feeding her fresh dates and cucumbers, due to which Hazrat Aisha's body became fat. Complete
(ابوداؤد، نمبر 3903)۔
Hazrat Aisha (RA) was previously engaged to the son of Jabir bin Mut'im and the first woman to propose marriage to him was Hazrat Khawla bint Hakim, which is a clear proof that underage little marriage (engagement) is acceptable in society. There was a known physical age and little marriage at that age was not considered a disability at all.
The marriage of Hazrat Aisha (RA) at a young age had many religious and educational benefits and an important part of the knowledge of Prophethood reached the Ummah through her.
We know that all the wives of the Holy Prophet (PBUH) loved the Prophet (PBUH) more than their own lives.
The Quran has clearly commanded the wives of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) that if someone wants to leave the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), he should be divorced with honor and be released with money. Then all the wives say. We will always be with the Messenger of Allah. Both in this world and the hereafter.
While the non-Muslim objected that the marriage was forced.
Surat No 33 : سورة الأحزاب - Ayat No 28
O Prophet, say to your wives, "If you desire the life of this world and its adornment, then come, I will provide for you and send you away in peace."
Ayesha Siddiqa's loyalty, love
When Ayesha Siddiqa's husband died, she was so sad that she started hitting herself in the face. She later said, "It was my mistake to do this." But it was love.
Aisha R.A said.
The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) passed away between my chin and my chest, and he (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) died on the day of my turn, and I did not wrong anyone. (Then she narrates that) due to my ignorance and youth, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) died in my lap, then I placed his head on the pillow and began to mourn on my face.
Hazrat Aisha Siddiqah (may Allah be pleased with her) was a faithful wife in this world. Whose example is not found anywhere.
After the death of her husband Muhammad PBUH, Aisha Siddiqah spent 47 years of her life in a room. There were three graves in the room. And there was room for a bed. Which was the most painful life. In this place.
Sahih] - [Narrated by Muslim]
Umm al-Mu’minin Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said: I did not perform Jealousy on any of the pure wives of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) except Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her), although I had not met her. Umm al-Mu’minin Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said: When the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) slaughtered a sheep, he would say: Send its meat to the friends of Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her). Umm al-Mu’minin Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said: One day I got angry and said: Khadijah is becoming Khadijah, so the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: Her heart is filled with love.
Sahih - Narrated by Imam Muslim
Anger at the Jews:
Once some Jews came to the Prophet (peace be upon him) and instead of saying "As-Salamu Alaikum" they said "As-Sam Alaikum" (i.e. death be upon you). Hazrat Aisha was very angry at this insult and replied: "Death be upon you and may the curse of Allah and His wrath be upon you!" The Prophet (peace be upon him) advised her to be gentle.
Once the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said to Hazrat Aisha Siddiqah (RA):
"I love you as Abu Zarrah loves Umm Zarrah."
Hazrat Aisha Siddiqah (RA) said: O Messenger of Allah! My parents are sacrificed for you. In my eyes, you are more beloved to Umm Zarrah than Abu Zarrah.
This hadith has been narrated by Imam Bukhari, which shows that a husband should express his love and loyalty to his wife and address her in a loving tone.
*He used to address Hazrat Aisha Siddiqah (RA) as Aisha Siddiqah (RA) instead of humaira
and would say:
O Aisha! Hazrat Gabriel (RA) is sending his greetings.
Sometimes he would address her as Humaira.
Humaira is an abbreviation of Humaira. It means fair complexion.
*The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to eat with his wives. Hazrat Aisha Siddiqah (may Allah be pleased with her) said, "You and I used to eat together. I used to drink from the same cup and you used to drink from where my lips were. Similarly, I used to suck bones from where my mouth was." (Muslim)
Sometimes (on moonlit nights) the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) would go for a walk with Hazrat Aisha Siddiqah (may Allah be pleased with her). At night, he would engage in pleasant conversations with his wife. (Bukhari)
Another narration states that Hazrat Aisha Siddiqa (may Allah be pleased with her) said that when the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to visit her house, he would do his own work, wash his clothes, wash the goats and do other things as well (Musnad Ahmad).
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said to Hazrat Aisha (RA): I know when you are angry and when you are happy. She asked: How? My parents are devoted to you. He (ﷺ) said: When you are happy, you swear thus: By the Lord of Muhammad (ﷺ), and when you are angry, you say: No, by the Lord of Abraham (ﷺ). Hazrat Aisha (RA) said: You have spoken the truth, O Messenger of Allah, I will not mention your name again.
(بخاری، نمبر 5228۔ مسلم، نمبر 6366)۔
This issue can also be seen from the perspective of how Hazrat Aisha Siddiqa herself viewed this marriage. She was sure that she was very lucky, she was sure that she was the luckiest wife in the world, and why not, when her husband is the best man in the world, may God protect her and grant her peace. Protect. . At the same time, she loved her husband. This marriage was considered very blessed and both their marriage and separation took place in Shawwal. So she liked such events in the month of Shawwal and used to say that both my marriage and separation took place in Shawwal and who is happier than me in the presence of my husband? (Sahih Bukhari and Muslim, Kitab al-Nikah)
This shows that Aisha Siddiqa was happy with the marriage, she was a mature woman. At the time of the marriage, her mind was sharper than that of older women, she was healthy in terms of health, and she passed away during her menstrual period, which are signs that are completely typical of women.
The second objection of the non-Muslim
Verse number 04 of Surah Talaq
Islam allows marriage only to an adult woman. This is called a grand marriage in which the woman goes to her husband's house. While the parents of a minor only perform a verbal marriage. This is usually called an engagement. This is a unilateral decision. In a unilateral decision of marriage, the girl stays in her parents' house. This is called a small marriage (engagement). Some families start making verbal decisions in childhood. But when the girl becomes an adult. Then she can break off the relationship or complete it. It is the girl's will.
The questions that most people raise in the Quran. One of them is Surah At-Talaq verse number 04 which will also be understood scientifically.
Allah Almighty, while mentioning women in the verse, said
Surat No 65 : سورة الطلاق - Ayat No 4
وَ الّٰٓـِٔىۡ یَئِسۡنَ مِنَ الۡمَحِیۡضِ مِنۡ 
نِّسَآئِکُمۡ 
اِنِ ارۡتَبۡتُمۡ فَعِدَّتُہُنَّ ثَلٰثَۃُ اَشۡہُرٍ ۙ وَّ الّٰٓـِٔىۡ لَمۡ یَحِضۡنَ ؕ وَ اُولَاتُ الۡاَحۡمَالِ اَجَلُہُنَّ اَنۡ یَّضَعۡنَ حَمۡلَہُنَّ ؕ
نِّسَآئِکُمۡ اِنِ ارۡتَبۡتُمۡ فَعِدَّتُہُنَّ ثَلٰثَۃُ اَشۡہُرٍ ۙ وَّ الّٰٓـِٔىۡ لَمۡ یَحِضۡنَ ؕ وَ اُولَاتُ الۡاَحۡمَالِ اَجَلُہُنَّ اَنۡ یَّضَعۡنَ حَمۡلَہُنَّ ؕ For those of you who have lost hope of menstruating, if you are in doubt, their waiting period is three months, and for those who have not yet begun menstruating.
The most objectionable verse from non-Muslims is this one. In which it is written that among women, there is a woman who has not yet started menstruating. This verse of the Quran mentions a woman. And which woman is this who has not yet started menstruating?
This verse of the Quran mentions a woman. And which woman is this who has not yet started menstruating? If it was a little girl, the word تِفْلَة should have been used. Rather, the word نِّسَآئِکُمۡ (women)
has been used. Woman
While the Quran has commanded that a girl be married off upon reaching puberty.
In the verse, "لَمْ يَحِضْنَ" refers to adult women who have not yet menstruated.
Hadith
Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) prescribed the waiting period for a woman who has never menstruated as three months.
Reference: Sunan Dar al-Qutni 4/18, Bayhaqi 7/421
Imam Shafi'i (may Allah have mercy on him):
If a woman reaches puberty and does not menstruate, her waiting period is 3 months."
Marry a girl only when she reaches the age of puberty (marriage) -
Verses that clearly prohibit marriage for infants and little boys and girls:
24:59
4:6
وَ ابۡتَلُوا الۡیَتٰمٰی حَتّٰۤی اِذَا بَلَغُوا النِّکَاحَ ۚبَلَغُوا That is, reaching puberty
بَلَغُوا النِّکَاحَ ۚبَلَغُوا That is, reaching pubertyAllah Almighty says in the Holy Quran:
In Surah Al-Ahzab, verse (49), Allah says:
Translation: O you who believe! When you marry believing women and then divorce them before you have touched them, you have no right over them to a waiting period that you may count, so give them some wealth and release them in a kind manner.
This is the verse that makes it clear that if a girl whose husband has not even touched her. She is divorced. So under Surah Al-Ahzab verse number 49.
Then her iddah will not be counted. Whereas the Quran has clearly stated this principle that the girl's puberty is the major marriage. Otherwise, the girl will remain in her father's house. The one who stays in her father's house does not have iddah. Because this is half a marriage. One-sided
The one who stays in her father's house does not have iddah. Because this is half a marriage. One-sided Surah Al-Talaq verse number 04 is talking about an older woman. Who does not menstruate due to illness all her life or she did not menstruate at all.Parents who plan their children's marriage from the beginning. And plan among their own relatives. That they will do it within their own family. This is a one-sided marriage which is usually called engagement or minor marriage. A small Nikah (engagement) will be done. But it will be waited until the girl reaches adulthood. Until the girl makes her own decision in her full consciousness.
In Islam, engagement is called half marriage. When the girl reaches adulthood. Then the girl will form her own opinion. These are the principles and laws. In Islam, in such a situation, there will be no Iddat of a minor. Nor will she be sent to another house.
The answer to this is found in verse 04 of Surah Talaq. The waiting period for a woman who does not menstruate due to illness will be three months.
And the woman who has not even touched him. She does not have a waiting period. A minor also does not have a waiting period. Rather, it is half a marriage. When she reaches adulthood, she can break it herself.
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Forced marriage is forbidden and will not be accepted.
It was narrated from Ibn Abbas that:
a virgin girl came to the Prophet and told him that her father arranged a marriage that she did not like, and the Prophet gave her the choice.
Ibne majah 1875
Abu Hurairah narrated that:
The Messenger of Allah said: An orphan is to be consulted about herself, then if she is silent that is her permission, and if she refuses, then do not authorize it (the marriage) for her (meaning: when she attains the age of puberty and refuses it.)
Tirmizi 1109
There is no room for forced marriage in the Holy Quran. Allah Almighty says in Surah An-Nisa (verse 19):
"O you who have believed, it is not lawful for you to inherit women by compulsion. And do not make difficulties for them.
How can the Quran, which prohibits oppression of women, even think of oppressing her?
Let me give you an example. For example, if it is said: those girls who have not yet found a job, then in common sense it is understood to mean those girls who have reached the age and qualification for employment but for some reason have not found a job. No one uses this phrase to mean underage girls, because not finding a job at this age is an obvious thing.
Islam does not teach abuse towards women, but rather love, respect and women's rights. It is the wife and husband who are the best friends. Islam teaches this, thank God Now the words of science are as follows.
According to science, there are diseases in women that cause them not to menstruate throughout their lives and many women do. Those who do not menstruate from the beginning until death.
A woman who does not menstruate (menstruate) throughout her life is called infertile (infertile) or in medical terms a woman with primary amenorrhea. Its medical causes may include congenital absence of the uterus or womb, severe hormone deficiency or genetic problems.
Women go through their entire lives without menstruating. Many of them are also married.
What is needed for menstruation? According to science
4 things are necessary for menstruation to occur:
1. Having a uterus - blood comes out of here
2. Having an open vagina - blood can come out
3. Making estrogen from the ovaries - forming the inner lining of the uterus
4. Hormone signals from the brain - FSH/LH drive the ovaries
If any one of these is missing, menstruation will not occur throughout life.
On Facebook, in 2023, a 20-year-old girl who has not yet menstruated describes her situation.
Gen Z Woman Who Never Had a Period Until 26
Quran Islam is free from all kinds of false accusations. Quran has always preferred the age of puberty.
Now the arguments of non-Muslim books are at what age do they accept marriage.
Believers of Judaism and Christianity
Both marriage and cohabitation of a minor girl are biblically permissible. While intercourse with a minor is forbidden in Islam.
Reference
https://discover-the-truth.com/…/bible-child-marriage-in-an…/
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The followers of Hindus also consider intercourse with a minor girl as permissible
Hindu scripture A man should marry his daughter as long as she has not attained puberty. Wise men recommend a girl's marriage when she is 8 years old..." (Padma Purana 6.118.2-15)
Before 1983 Catholic canon law permitted priests to marry off brides of at the age of 12"...Whoever having decorated his virgin daughter aged 8 years with apparel reverentially mokes a gift of her to a good Brahmin, reaps the benefits of the gift of Durga." (Brahma Vaivarta Purana, Krishna Janma Khanda 76.43-52)Before 1929 Church of England ministers could marry 12 year olds in Britain "A 30 year old man shall marry a 1 year old girl, and 21 year old with 7 year old girl" (Mahabharat Anushasan parva 44:14)Henry VIII-1500 AD married a 6 year old "A man should marry a girl 1/3 of his age" (Vishnu purana 3.10.16)King Richard II-1400AD married a 7 years old girl "A girl should be married before her menstruation, if father fails to marry her daughter before her menstruation, he commits a sin" (Gautam dharamsutra 18:21)Saint Augustine-350 AD married a girl who was 10 years old......
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