Be nice to your wife , be nice to your kids , the prophet Muhammad pbuh should be your example :
Her young friends came regularly to visit her in her house. "I would be playing with my dolls," she said, "with the girls who were my friends, and the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, would come in and they would slip out of the house and he would go out after them and bring them back, for he was pleased for my sake to have them there."
Sometimes he would say "Stay where you are" before they had time to leave, and would also join in their games. Aisha said: "One day, the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, came in when I was playing with the dolls and he said: 'O Aisha, whatever game is this?' 'It is Solomon's horses,' I said and he laughed."
One day there were Abyssinians giving a fighting display with their weapons in the mosque. The Prophet asked 'Aisha whether she would like to watch the Abyssinians she said: yes. She remembered how the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, screened her with his cloak so as to let her watch the Abyssinians freely. He kept standing until she had enough and went back in, she said that he used to ask her if she is satisfied or not and she used to say No to test how much he is patient with her and he always succeed in the test may the peace of Allah be upon him .
Some of the great moments between our beloved Muhammad PBUH and his wife , our mother Aicha :
Aisha, may Allah be pleased with her, said that when she was traveling with the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, the Prophet raced her and she won. Few years later when she grew a bit fatter he raced her and he won.
The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him,once told Aisha : “I know when you are pleased with me and when you are angry with me “
She asked : “How do you know that ?”
He replied : “when you are pleased with me you say ‘No by the God of Muhammad’ but when you a angry with me you say ‘No by the God of Ibraham.She said : “Yes, O God’s Prophet I only abandon your name
Aisha related that the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, once told her that to him she was more loved to him than dates with butter and she would answer : “and you ‘ messenger of God are more loved to me than honey with butter
And when Aisha’s Jealousy overwhelmed her the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, would excuse her and say that if she could control her jealousy she would
In fact her jealousy never exceeded the limits of religion or fairness. Actually her jealousy was a symbol of deep love to her extra-ordinary man
the Prophet (s) would say about his daughter Fatima : "Fatima is a part of me, he who upsets her, upsets me"
Also if the Prophet (s) would be seated and Fatima would enter he would get up and kiss her between her eyes, all the time. And therefore when he was about to die, she could tell because he was unable to stand up to kiss her. These days fathers don't even know how to hug their daughters let alone greet them with a kiss. Look at the affection, softness and sweetness of the Prophet (s).
If the Prophet (s) was traveling and entered al-Madina, the first thing he would do when he entered al-Madina would be to enter the Masjid and prays two raka`at and then he goes and visits Fatima. And if he was leaving Madina the last thing he would do before leaving is to go and see her. Look at our Prophet (s), and this affection and how important she was to him.
