So what exactly is ad-Dayooth?
Ad-Dayooth is a man who does not have any element of protective jealousy for the women around him, namely - his mother, wife, daughters or sisters.
He is the one who permits the women he is responsible over to do the following:
1. Engage in haram relationships with other men or even worse, fornicate
2. Show off her beauty and display it in front of strange men
3. Put up her pictures on social media platforms (FB, Instagram…) allowing thousands of men to fix their glaze on her face and body.
3. Apply perfume and put on make-up when going out
4. Leave the house wearing tight and attractive clothing, thereby stimulating men's desire
5. Leave the house without wearing hijab
6. Mix freely with non-mahrams
2. Show off her beauty and display it in front of strange men
3. Put up her pictures on social media platforms (FB, Instagram…) allowing thousands of men to fix their glaze on her face and body.
3. Apply perfume and put on make-up when going out
4. Leave the house wearing tight and attractive clothing, thereby stimulating men's desire
5. Leave the house without wearing hijab
6. Mix freely with non-mahrams
He is the type of man that enjoys sharing his wife with other men through their glances and does not care if his sister or daughter has a boyfriend or leaves the house looking attractive.
Ibn al-Qayyim, rahimahullaah, said, “And the dayyooth (the man with no jealousy over the woman and his family) is the most vile of Allah’s creation, and Jannah is forbidden for him, (because of his lack of Gharyah-jealousy).
So ask yourself brothers, "Do I carry traits of a Dayooth?''
If you do, then it is essential you start being more critical of how you choose to allow the women you are responsible over to freely conduct herself in a way that objectifies her and allows her to lose her sense of dignity .
Allah SWT also reminds us in the Quran that men should be protectors over women and this is because Islam values, honors and protects women.
“Men are the protectors and maintainers of women because of what Allah has preferred one with over the other and because of what they spend to support them from their wealth.” [Sûrah an-Nisâ’: 34]
It's important to also note that a man will be asked on Judgment Day on how he took care those under his charge.
The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said, Beware. every one of you is a shepherd and everyone is answerable with regard to his flock. (Sahih Muslim 1829 a)
*Note: The Muslims will eventually be taken out of hellfire and be admitted to Paradise. This may mean that they won't enter Paradise with the first batch but rather delayed for some time.
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