"Recently, I’ve been considering a brother who honestly checks so many boxes.
He’s memorized the Qur’an. He's humble, our values and mindset align. I truly believe he could help me become a better wife and a better Muslim.
But I’m struggling to say that I’m not physically attracted to him.
He lives abroad, so we haven’t met in person yet. And I keep going back and forth in my head:
Will attraction grow after marriage?
Is it wrong to hope it might change over time?
Are these genuine concerns—or are waswasa magnifying flaws?
I don’t want to enter a marriage unfairly.
But I don’t want to ignore something either that might matter more than I realize.
So I’m asking those who have been there:
Is strong character enough to build a great marriage?
Do people marry hoping attraction will come later—and does it actually work?
How do you know someone is truly right for you before taking that step?”
What do you think? Share your thoughts below!
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