Enduring what your child enjoys

Enduring what your child enjoys: When Allah the Almighty bestows upon someone the blessing of children He in fact has conferred the best worldly adornment upon him especially if those children are healthy and lively like all normal children It is a great pleasure for us to see them grow day by day and we are always eager to observe their every next development Today the teeth have appeared tomorrow they will crawl and soon they will walk and run spreading liveliness everywhere in the house We then give full rein to our imagination imagining their weddings and the day when those little children will assume the best offices Shortly after that children unexpectedly become noisy and disobedient These disturbing behaviors are in fact very normal and they are even considered signs of the childrsquos psychological health What we the adults call disruptive behavior such as leaping running shouting scattering toys and the like represent the childrsquos daily occupation that he enjoys performing without any disturbance Unfortunately many parents do not understand the innocent and spontaneous behavior of their children in this way and therefore they fail to make use of these patterns of behavior as a means of education rathe